While I will say that for the most part my masturbation sessions are pretty straight forward, there have been moments when things didn’t go as planned. This would definitely be one of them. You see, a while after buying my first sex toy (Adam and Eve’s Blue Dolphin Vibrator), I wanted to more. More toys that is. At that time, I wasn’t too educated on the logistics of sex toys, but I knew I wanted to try something different.
I decided to take a look at my local sex shop which would be Babeland. I was interested in trying out G-spot stimulation with the use of a toy and not just my fingers. I was looking at different products and previously heard about the Pico Bong company and how Lelo was their parent company which was why the silicone was so nice and the products in general are overall good quality. While I was in the shop, I was shown some other options but decided on this one because the silicone felt so nice and smooth. And it came in one of my favorite colors. Blue. More like aqua really.
Some information about the PicoBong Moka is that it is made with 100% body safe silicone, is 100% waterproof, and has 12 vibration patterns that can be can intensified with the plus and minus buttons. Diving more into the company’s website, they all about positive sexual experiences, letting the public know that owning a vibrator is totally normal and try to normalize the idea of masturbation and owning sex toys, while also making them affordable, with good quality materials, and easy to use. A company definitely targeted to customers that are new to buying sex toys. Very nice.
While purchasing the Moka, I also bought some batteries, as I didn’t feel like looking for any when I got home. I was also able to use a discount I found on Yelp, which gave me even more incentive to buy it, because who doesn’t love to save money on orgasms?! Am I right?
After cleaning the Moka with some Babeland toy cleaner, which I purchased on a previous trip, I decided that night would be the night to use it. Right off the bat I didn’t really care the vibration patterns, so getting this toy to turn me on was a bit annoying, and I immediately became annoyed. They were nice and strong and did reach pretty deep, but I needed some pin point stimulation to get me where I needed to be. So rather than get upset, I decided to start off with my We-Vibe Tango. And finished with it as well. After having a great orgasm, I suddenly started to crave something filling and grabbed the Moka immediately.
Deciding not to test my vaginal limits, I put some water-based lubricant on myself and the toy and began thrusting. OH MY GOSH DID IT FEEL GOOD. No, it felt amazing. The pronounced curve of the toy did annoy me a bit when inserting it, but after that, it was Amazing! But I believe it felt so damn good because I just had an orgasm, and for those who don’t know already, after having an orgasm, your body is more sensitive to things like touch, especially any further stimulation. I had experienced this in the past using just my fingers, but the Moka provided a longer reach that intensified the sensation by rubbing on my g-spot with every thrust. And the faster I thrusted the more it felt good.
All was going great until in mid-thrust I felt a sharp/dullish pain (more on the sharp side). I immediately began to panic. It was as if my vagina was holding onto the toy and wouldn’t let go of it. Not thinking clearly I began trying to pull the toy out of my hungry vagina. It hurt like hell and I could feel my PC Muscles squeezing around the toy, not trying to let it go. Me trying to get the toy out only lasted but 15 seconds. I then thought to myself: “You’re only going to cause yourself more pain by panicking”.
So I laid back down and relaxed for a minute. After I felt my vagina relax, I slowly began to take the toy out. That damn pronounced curve gave me a challenge when getting it out. The same challenge I had getting it in. I don’t really know exactly how to articulate it. I did however learn a lot about myself from the experience.
While I don’t know why my vagina decided to have a random spasm while thrusting with the Moka, this hasn’t happened again and it’s been over a year and half (maybe 2 years) since it happened. And then there’s the question of why I would even bother to share something like this?
Because things like this happen to people (Men, Women, Mermaids) while masturbating all the time, and feeling like you’re the only one it happened to can cause allot of fear that it could happen again or shame that can make you feel something might be wrong with you or you’re the only person who has ever had that experience, whatever experience that may be. I will say that masturbation shouldn’t be uncomfortably painful like bad pain and more like it hurts so good kind of pain. So if bad pain happens too often, please go and see a doctor. Sex should never be painful unless it’s by choice.
As for my personal recommendation of this toy, I like its features. I like the thoughtfulness that went into the creation of this particular toy line and how user friendly it is. And despite that damn pronounced curve, I really enjoyed using it for thrusting. I don’t like toys I can’t recharge but will say that this lack of feature on this toy and toy line (most of their toys are like that) makes for the ease of use feature. Especially for people who are new to the sex toys. It’s also body safe and the silicone feels great, so yes. I would recommend this toy even though I personally didn’t like it for myself.
I will say that at the time I was not thinking about a couple things when I bought this toy. One being the interpretation or fortune telling for that matter of how the pronounced curve as I call it, would feel while using the toy. Then again, the only way you know a certain toy shape won’t work for body is to actually use it. Two would be batteries. It wasn’t until after buying and using this toy that I realized that I hate sex toys that I can’t recharge. In fact after this toy, it became a standard for me. And last, whether or not I needed something with power for my first g-spotting experience. I have since learned better.
*This product was purchased with my own money. All opinions are my own.
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